KISS DAY đź”Ľ

February 13, 2024 

“Touch the lip

well well keep

It’s the kiss

Baby kiss, bae kiss

hubby kiss, parent kiss, friend kiss

Kiss is natural tonic of mind

Stop war

Kiss the world.”

 – Jotsna jari 

    🔼

Kiss has a healing power or There is no gift greater than a sweet kiss…   Do you believe !!  Then Kiss Day just for you.

Kiss Day originated from the United Kingdom. This is celebrated every year on February 13. The unique idea behind kissing is showing your love towards your partner.  Partners seal their relationship through a sweet kiss. The kiss is used to convey closeness, passion, commitment, affection and devotion. Kiss is the great way to show your hidden feelings without use of any words. So a tender kiss can express love better than a thousand words. The main aim behind the celebration of Kiss Day is strengthen your relationship. This Day is a Golden Day in Valentine’s week. Homer writes about King Priam showing respect by kissing the hand of Achilles and he intercedes on behalf of his son (800-900 BC). After the conquest of Alexander the Great, the practice of kissing spreads yo the West (326 BC). First “open-mouthed” kiss occurs between Greta Garbo and John Gilbert in the film “Flesh and the Devil” (1926). 

Happy Kiss Day 

Kiss is the touch or pressing of one’s lips against another person or an object. Cultural connotations of kissing vary widely. Depending on the culture and context, a kiss can express sentiments of love, passion, romance, sexual attraction, sexual activity, sexual arousal, affection, respect, greeting, peace, and good luck, among many others. In some situations, a kiss is a ritual, formal or symbolic gesture indicating devotion, respect, or a sacramental. The word came from Old English cyssan (“to kiss”), in turn from coss (“a kiss”).

🔺 History :

Anthropologists disagree on whether kissing is an instinctual or learned behavior.

Some researchers believe that kissing began millions of years ago as a result of mouth-to-mouth feeding, with mammal mothers chewing food and then “forcing it” into the mouths of their young.

University of Nevada Las Vegas, found that only 46% use lip-to-lip kissing in a romantic sense, excluding things like parent-child kissing or greetings.

The earliest reference to kissing-like behavior comes from the Vedas, Sanskrit scriptures that informed Hinduism,  Buddhism, and Jainism, around 3,500 years ago, according to Vaughn Bryant, an anthropologist at Texas A&M University who specializes in the history of the kiss.

The Indian epic poem “Mahabharata” describes kissing on the lips as a sign of affection. The “Mahabharata” was passed down orally for several hundred years before being written down and standardized around 350 A.D. The Indian religious text “Vatsyayana Kamasutram,” or the “Kama Sutra,” also describes a variety of kisses. It was written in the 6th century A.D. Anthropologists who believe that kissing is a learned behavior theorize that the Greeks learned about it when Alexander the Great invaded India in 326 B.C.

A fresco from Pompeii showing the kiss of Roman couple.

There aren’t many records of kissing in the Western world until the days of the Roman Empire. Romans used kisses to greet friends and family members. Citizens kissed their rulers’ hands. And, naturally, people kissed their romantic partners. The Romans even came up with three different categories for kissing : 

 *Osculum was a kiss on the cheek.  

*Basium was a kiss on the lips.   

*Savolium was a deep kiss. 

Kissing was not always an indication of eros, or love, but also could show respect and rank as it was used in Medieval Europe.

 The study of kissing started sometime in the nineteenth century and is called philematology.

🔺 Importance and significance :

Kiss day was borne out of the idea that many people forget the pleasure one can gain from the single act of kissing. It is the best way to make others feel loved and express love in return. The simple pleasure of kissing your partner before leaving for work or after coming back from a long day has lost its essence in the fast pace of the modern world. But kiss day aims to revive the celebration of expressing love.       Whenever your love starts fading out, you can simply rekindle the romance by a minimum act of intimacy each day.

🔺 Health benefits :

 Kissing stimulates the production of hormones responsible for a good mood: oxytocin, which releases the feeling of love and strengthens the bond with the partner, endorphins – hormones responsible for the feeling of happiness –, and dopamine, which stimulates the pleasure center in the brain . Regular kissing protects against depression. Affection in general has stress-reducing effects. Kissing in particular has been studied in a controlled experiment and it was found that increasing the frequency of kissing in marital and cohabiting relationships results in a reduction of perceived stress, an increase in relationship satisfaction, and a lowering of cholesterol levels.

🔺 Disease transmission :

 Kissing on the lips can result in the transmission of some diseases, including infectious mononucleosis (known as the “kissing disease”) and herpes simplex when the infectious viruses are present in saliva. Research indicates that contraction of HIV via kissing is extremely unlikely, although there was a documented case in 1997 of an HIV infection by kissing. Both the woman and infected man had gum disease, so transmission was through the man’s blood, not through saliva.

🔺 Kiss Day Poetry : 

*** Both lip and tongue kissing are mentioned in Sumerian [ Mesopotamia (south-central Iraq), 4500 BC ] poetry:- 

 My lips are too small, they know not to kiss.

 My precious sweet, lying by my heart,

 one by one “tongue making,” one by one.

 When my sweet precious, my heart, had lain down too,

 each of them in turn kissing with the tongue, each in turn.

*** Kissing is described in the surviving ancient Egyptian love poetry from the New Kingdom, found on papyri…

                            excavated at Deir el-Medina:- 

 Finally I will drink life from your lips

 and wake up from this ever lasting sleep.

 The wisdom of the earth in a kiss

 and everything else in your eyes.

 I kiss her before everyone

 that they all may see my love.

 And when her lips are pressed to mine

 I am made drunk and need not wine.

 When we kiss, and her warm lips half

 open,

 I fly cloud-high without beer!

 His kisses on my lips, my breast, my hair…

 …Come! Come! Come! And kiss me when I die,

 For life, compelling life, is in thy breath;

 And at that kiss, though in the tomb I lie,

 I will arise and break the bands of Death.

*** Roman poets such as Catullus celebrated kissing, as, for example,

in Catullus 8 :- 

Goodbye girl, now Catullus is firm,/ He doesn’t search for you, won’t ask unwillingly./ But you’ll grieve, when nobody asks./ Woe to you, wicked girl, what life’s left for you?/ Who’ll submit to you now? Who’ll see your beauty?/ Who now will you love? Whose will they say you’ll be?/ Who will you kiss? Whose lips will you bite?/ But you, Catullus, be resolved to be firm.

                                   [ Catullus(84 – 54 BC) is ancient Rome’s greatest poet. 

                                 His poems are the best examples of Latin poetry. ] 

***Modern Poetry :- 

Before the fog of strangers cleared, 

he called me & said, 

How are you…   what are you doing ? 

Just before giving the right answer

distanced mountain & 

the light of the tower  were seen… 

Shal flowers laughed 

in absolute crowd. 

Nepali girls  spreading their legs 

on the green lawn 

are laughing 

Continuous nightingale song…  

You stood on the other side of the road

Then I am picking up 

one thorn after another  

from the hem of cotton sari.

.🌹 Poem :  Hidden Kiss

       Poet :  jotsna jari  

FAQs :  Kiss Day  2024 

1.  What is Kiss day India?

Ans:-  Kiss Day is celebrated on February 13

, and it is considered a golden day in Valentine’s week. This is the day when you express your love for your beloved in the most romantic fashion, where you profess your love through feelings and not words. A tender kiss can express love better than a thousand words.

2.  What is Kiss Day date?

Ans:-  February 13 is also celebrated as International Kiss Day. It falls a day before Valentine’s Day which is celebrated on February 14 all over the world as the day of love. Kiss Day precedes valentine’s Day.

3.  What is Japanese kiss day?

Ans:-  May 23rd

 is “Kiss Day” because it’s the day that saw the release in 1946 of the first Japanese film with a kissing scene, Hatachi no seishun (20-Year-Old Youth). Not surprisingly, the scene was a decorous one by the standards of today but at the time it was a big deal. 

4.  Why International Kissing Day?

Ans:-  International Kissing Day itself is not only about French kissing your significant other, but to bring people closer in general

. The main idea behind it was that so many people have forgotten the simple pleasures associated with kissing for kissing’s sake, as opposed to kissing as mere social formality.

5.  How to Wish Kiss Day?

Ans:-  Wishing you a kiss day filled with all the love and affection your heart desires

. Happy kiss day to the one who steals my heart with every kiss. May your kiss day be as sweet and special as you are. Wishing you a day full of tender kisses and loving moments.

6.  What happens in Kiss Day?

Ans:-  Kiss Day is celebrated on February 13, and it is considered a golden day in Valentine’s week. This is the day when you express your love for your beloved in the most romantic fashion, where you profess your love through feelings and not words

. A tender kiss can express love better than a thousand words.

7.  Why do people celebrate Kiss Day?

Ans:-  Significance of Kiss Day It provides an opportunity for people to express their love and affection to those they care about

, setting the stage for a more romantic and intimate celebration on Valentine’s Day itself. It basically happens to be a fun and meaningful way to celebrate love and affection.

8.  Is it National kiss Your Girlfriend day?

Ans:-  National Kissing Day, on June 22, is all about showing your love and improving your health. That’s right, kissing is actually good for you.

9. Is today National kiss your BF day?

Ans:-  This event is always observed on April 28

.

10.  What is the K-I-S-S-I-N-G rhyme?

Ans:-  Familiar to children in the US and the UK, often with embarrassing consequences, the song goes like this:

“John and Mary (or any two names)

sitting in a tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G,

first comes love, then come marriage,

then comes baby

in a baby carriage!”

11.  Who invented kissing and why?

Ans:-  While the true origin of kissing remains a mystery, historians have found in India the earliest references to the practice

. Four major texts in the Vedic Sanskrit literature suggest an early form of kissing. Dating from 1500 B.C., they describe the custom of rubbing and pressing noses together.

12.  When did humans first start kissing?

Ans:-  First Recorded Kiss (circa 1500 B.C.

). Whatever the case, the earliest known written mentions of it are in Vedic Sanskrit scriptures circa 1500 B.C., according to research by Vaughn Bryant, an anthropology professor at Texas A&M University.

13.  What is the history of a kiss?

Ans:-  The earliest reference to kissing-like behavior comes from the Vedas, Sanskrit scriptures that informed Hinduism, Buddhism, and Jainism, around 3,500 years ago

, according to Vaughn Bryant, an anthropologist at Texas A&M University who specializes in the history of the kiss.

14.  How did humans start kissing?

Ans:-  Many scientists believe that kissing came from the practice of kiss-feeding

, where mothers would feed their young mouth-to-mouth. Imagine birds feeding worms to their little chicks. 

Hug Day : Music Video đźŚą

“Spring air also in the home
I will not go anywhere
Hug & happiness returned
with quiet & silent time
Yaaa…   this little can be expected.”
    – jotsna jari đź’š

HUG DAY   🔼

February 12, 2024

“Spring air also in the home

I will not go anywhere

Hug & happiness returned

with quiet & silent time

Yaaa…   this little can be expected.”

    – jotsna jari 

   🔼

The hug is a form of endearment, universal in most human communities, in which two or more people put their arms around neck, back or waist of one another and hold each other closely. The “HUG” (first used in 1560s) could be related to the Old Norse word “HUGGA”. The hypothesis is that the word is related to the German word “HEGEN”. Hugs are an essential form of physical touch. This can be a sign of romantic, security, emotional support, friendship or love. The hug, sometimes in association with a kiss, is a form of non verbal communication. To celebrate this manifestation of love, Hug Day is commemorated on February 12. every year. The hug is one of the most natural gestures. This lovely day encourages hugging, as a therapeutic way to convey affection and emotions. We love all types of hugs, from one-armed hug to full hug. So let’s get hugging !!   

Happy Hug Day 

🔺 History  : 

The word “hug” is believed to come from the ancient Scandinavian word “hugga” meaning “hippy,” — actually, it means “to comfort.”

 Hugging involves both hands, so it’s likely it was a way to prove friendship . It’s ingrained in our culture. 

Research shows that babies wither without hugs from their mothers and that holding and touching reduces anxiety, improves sleep and helps us empathize with others as we grow up.

They have been determined to be approximately 6000 years old

, so we know for sure that people already hugged each other in Neolithic times. When we hug, we wrap our arms around another person. 

🔺Scientific Facts About Hugging :        

1).  The average hug time 3.17 seconds :- 

A study led by Ms Nagy from the University of Dundee analyzed 188 spontaneous hugs between athletes and their coaches, competitors and supporters during the 2008 Summer Olympic Games (Nagy, 2011). 

The results :  The average hug lasted 3.17 seconds and was not affected by the gender composition of the hugging pair or the nationalities of the two huggers.

2).  Humans have hugged each other since thousands of years :-              

No one knows when the first hug between two humans took place, but we do know that hugs have been in the human behavioral repertoire for at least several thousand years.  In 2007, a team of archaeologists discovered the so-called “Valdaro’s Lover” in a Neolithic tomb near Mantua, Italy (Stewart, 2007).  The lovers are a pair of human skeletons buried in a tight embrace.  They have been dated to approximately 6000 years old, so we know for sure that people were already hugging each other during the Neolithic period.        

      The Lovers of Valdaro in Italy, male                   skeleton is on the left, and the

           female skeleton is on the right.

3).  Hug to the Right :-                                

We found that overall, most people hugged to the right. In the emotionally neutral situation in which strangers hugged a blindfolded person, 92% hugged to the right. However, in more emotional situations, that is, when people hugged their friends or partners at the airport, only about 81% of people hugged to the right. Since the left hemisphere of the brain controls the right half of the body and vice versa, we believe that this leftward shift in hugging is due to a greater involvement of the right hemisphere of the brain for emotional processes during hugging in these situations.

4).  Hugging improves Health :-

Individuals who had received a hug from their partner prior to being stressed showed significantly lower blood pressure and heart rate than those who did not touch their partners.  Thus, hugging leads to lower reactivity to stressful events and may benefit cardiovascular health. 

🔺 Sweet & Warm SMS, Messages & Quotes : 

1.  If a hug could convey how much I love you, I would hold you in my arms forever.

2.  Sending your way a warm hug, to let you know that I am thinking of you and I miss you.

3.  Sending you a hug to ease your stress a kiss to make you smile and my heart to say, I’m thinking of you. Happy hug day!!

4.  You can’t wrap love in a box, but you can wrap a person in a hug. That must be why God gave us arms. So here is a hug for you on this hug day.

5.  There is one gift which can’t be given without taking it back that is why I give you a hug, happy hugging day!!

6.  A hug is a way to share joy, happiness, and sadness, I want to hug you, as I want to share everything with you.

7.  I want to hug you so tightly, and want to make you mine forever.

8.  Sending you today a hug from across the miles so warm and tight, the distances would disappear, and you’d know how much I love you!

9.  A hug is a handshake from the heart, and I am sure a hug will help you feel calm and happy.

10.  A hug is a language of love. Let me express that, it is still unspoken between us.

11.  I have a lot of love for you. Hug me and let it flow in your soul.

12.  In the warmth of my hug, you will feel the depth of my emotion.

13.  There is one gift in this world giving which is as good as receiving. And I give it to you today.

14.  A hug warms, delights and charms. It’s the best gift to give to your beloved, and I’m sending you one today.

15.  I know you love gifts. I am sending you one that is huge. It’s a hug from me to you!

16.  Never wait until tomorrow to hug someone. You could hug today because when you give the one you get one right back your way.

17.  Sometimes it’s better to put love into hugs than to put it into words.

18.  A hug is a great gift- one size fits all, and it’s easy to exchange.

19.  Hugging is a silent way of saying, “you matter to me”. Happy hug day. 

20.  It is always the perfect time to hug your loved one, just hug and feel the warmth of love. Happy hug day. 

21.  A hug is a loving gift that costs no money and can be distributed for free to make the love grow. Happy hug day.

22.  Feel the presence of love, wrapped up within a hug. Happy hug day.

23.  Sending the warmest hugs to the coolest friend I have, happy hug day.

24.  A hug might be the simplest gesture but it feels amazing, happy hug day.

🔺  7 Types Of Hugs & Relationships : 

1. Side hug :- 

A side hug is when two parties hug each other with their arms around their waist or the other person’s shoulders.  Usually they stand side by side, one using the left hand and the other using the right hand.

This hug is more between acquaintances than friends.

2.  Friend hug :- 

A friend hug is a traditional, two-armed hug where both people’s chests are touching.

3.  Hugging from behind :- 

This hug indicates a romantic relationship or a parent-child relationship.

4.  Hugging around the waist :- 

With this type of hug, both partners’ waists are completely aligned and their arms are wrapped around each other’s waists. In this position, they can lean back and look at each other in the eyes.

This is an intimate romantic hug, which provides an opening for someone to make the next move.

5.  Bear Hugs :-

Bear hugs are usually done standing up.  It’s like a normal hug but much closer, tighter and usually longer.  Bear hugs can also be taken while lying down, what Mattenson calls a “blanket of love,” lying on top of one.

6.  One-sided hug :- 

In a one-sided hug, both people are facing each other. One is usually receiving the hug while the other is giving it. The receiver is typically limp with their arms by their side. The giver (or supporter) is squeezing the other one tightly.

7.  Heart-to-heart hugs :- 

In a heart-to-heart hug, both huggers approach the hug from their left sides, so their hearts touch first.  This can be done in a standing or sitting position.  While sitting, your arms and legs can be intertwined.  Mattenson recommends holding it for three minutes or longer.

🔺 Hug Day Poem  :

You were a long way traveler

 then you came near 

 Stay together for a few days

 you got pain

 from the thron 

 The soft scent 

 of some flowers

 was shared between twos 

This is how the journey begins  

 our words…  our pain 

 all remained ours 

who cares about that 

 .

 I will walk the way of the world…  

 with the world

 With this hope…   

 I keep hand in your hand. 

 Ah…   the soul of my life  

 the song you wrote with the melody 

is still alive today 

 But the pain remains

I sew the words together  

 Keeping the head on grass…   

 with the light of moon & sun on chest

 we fill both of our house

 with hug happiness…  

🌹 Poem : Companion.

      Poet :  jotsna jari 

FAQs :  Hug Day  2024 

1.  Why is Hug Day celebrated? 

Ans:-  Hug Day is celebrated on February 12 — the sixth day of Valentine’s Week. You can celebrate this day with your loved ones by giving them a warm and comforting hug, which will help them forget about their life’s difficulties, even if it’s momentarily

. Just a firm hug is enough to show how much you care.

2.  Who can celebrate Hug Day?

Ana:-  Those who are away from their loved ones

 on Hug Day, send Hug Day messages and gifts to their partners and loved ones. While Hug Day on February 12 is celebrated as a part of the Valentine’s Day celebrations, there is another day too that celebrates hugs. National Hugging Day is celebrated every year on January 21.

3.  How do you wish someone a happy Hug Day?

Ans:-  Happy Hug Day 2023: Wishes, Messages, Quotes, Images, Facebook & WhatsApp status– 

1.)  “Wishing you a very Happy Hug Day. …

2.)  “Hug is the perfect way to tell someone that you love him or her. …

3.)  “Happy Hug Day to you. …

4.)  “When I hug you, my heart finds happiness and my soul finds peace.5.)  I’m sending you a big, warm hug and all my love.6.)  Happy hug day!

Your warm embrace is the best feeling in the world! 

4.  When was hugging first invented?

Ans:-  They have been determined to be approximately 6000 years old

, so we know for sure that people already hugged each other in Neolithic times. When we hug, we wrap our arms around another person.

5.  Who discovered the hug?

Ans:-  It’s not a casual gesture of affection; it’s a profound one, and it was invented by the Welsh

.

6.  Why do humans hug?

Ans:-  A hug can indicate support, comfort, and consolation, particularly where words are insufficient

. A hug usually demonstrates affection and emotional warmth, sometimes arising from joy or happiness when reunited with someone or seeing someone absent after a long time.

7.  Why do humans crave hugs?

Ans:-  Oxytocin is a chemical in our bodies that scientists sometimes call the “cuddle hormone.” This is because its levels rise when we hug, touch, or sit close to someone else

. Oxytocin is associated with happiness and less stress. Scientists have found that this hormone has a strong effect in women.

8.  When was hugging discovered?

Ans:-  China skeletons 1,500-years-old

 discovered hugging in ‘love’ embrace.

9. Why is a hug so powerful?

Ans:-  Hugs release oxytocin

 Oxytocin is often called the “love hormone,” and it’s released when we cuddle or bond. It’s the reason why being hugged feels so good. So when you’re feeling down, give someone a squeeze and feel your mood lift.

10.  Did you know facts about hugs?

Ans:-  Even a 20-second hug releases enough oxytocin to make you feel better.

Reduce inflammation.

Improve wound healing.

Lessen cravings for drugs, alcohol, and sweets.

Lower heart rate and stress. 

11. Which day is celebrated on the Valentine’s week?

Ans:-  The sixth day of Valentine’s week.

PROMISE DAY  🔼

February 11,  2024 

” I will walk the way of the world…   

 with the world

 With this hope…   

 I keep hand in your hand. “

– jostna jari 

A promise is a commitment by someone to do or not do something.  As a verb Promise is to tell someone that you will certainly do something. As a noun It means a declaration assuring that one will or will not do something. The fifth day of Valentine’s week is Promise Day where couples or lovers make unbreakable vows to each other, and promise & profess their love & commitment for life to each other.

Promises can be kept between two best friends, siblings and family too. Promise Day is celebrated on February 11 every year by couples & love birds to show their dedication towards each other and further strengthen their relationship. Trust is an important aspect of a healthy and long-term relationship, and must be developed through promises, reassurances and actions. 

A large number of young people give roses to propose to their prospective girlfriend or boyfriend. 

🔺 Different  states of promises :

                                                                 

A promise has three states:-

* pending: the promise is still in the works.

* fulfilled: the promise resolves successfully and returns a value.

* rejected: the promise fails with an error.

🔺 Three Types of Promises : 

What is obvious to me may not be obvious to you.

 Trust in relationships is based on our ability to communicate with each other in unison.  Healthy relationships are based on making promises, keeping promises, and managing promises.  Commitment is the foundation of our identity, our effectiveness and our well-being.

 We may not call them commitments, but commitments are agreements and decisions about who will do what, when, and how.  A promise is a promise to ourselves and a promise to others.

 We cannot share commitments without shared understanding.  Our expectations are based on the promises we make.

Unspoken expectations are premeditative broken promises.

People do not care about your expectations.  Or mine. They care about the commitments we make and keep.

A promise is a personal commitment people expect you to honor.

There are 3 types of promises :- 

* Strong/Healthy Promises – 

Promises I am fully committed to keep; You can count on me.

If I am unable to keep my promise, I can renegotiate my original promise

i.e. I will meet you for coffee at 8 am. I will complete my assignment on time.

* Shallow Promises – 

Look like a strong promise, but an unspoken condition exists.

i.e. Yes, I will play golf with you on Saturday (unless it rains or something else comes up)

* Criminal Promises – 

Promises that at the moment we make them, we know we have no intention of keeping

i.e.  Maybe…My son asks me to play with him when I am done, and I tell him maybe

Promises unkept are NOT equal to expectations unmet. 

       What promises are you making?

       Are you honoring those promises?

       What promises are you fully committed to honoring?

       What promises do you need to renegotiate?

Personal integrity and honor depends on owning and delivering on the promises we make. Relationship trust is too valuable to take for granted.

Commit to making STRONG HEALTHY promises.

🔺 Promise Day Philosophy :

Every advantage of promise in the past is judged in the light of the final issue.

– Demosthenes 

Philosophers have tried to establish rules for promises. Immanuel Kant suggested promises should always be kept, while some consequentialists argue that promises should be broken whenever doing so would yield benefits. In How to Make Good Decisions and Be Right All the Time, Iain King tried to reconcile these positions, suggesting that promises should be kept ‘unless they are worth less to others than a new option is to you, and that this requires a relevant, unforeseen and reasonably unforeseeable change in the situation more important than the promise itself arising after the promise is made.

                                                              Cover of the first edition 

🔺 Celebrate Promise Day 2024 :

Promise Day can be wonderful by eternal promises. Many couples have own ideas how to celebrate it. Many couples often get stuck while writing promises to each other. The best promise day ideas are handwritten letters, love contracts, promise rings, promise cards, and dedicating a song.

In social media use hashtag –   #promiseday #happypromiseday

🔺 Promise Day Quotes :

“I promise to hold your hand and walk with you through thick and thin, now and always.”

 â€śOn this promise day, I promise to always be honest, faithful, and loyal to you.”

 â€śI promise to stand by you in all ups and downs of life and make our journey together a beautiful one.” 

“On this promise day, I promise to always trust and believe in you, and be there for you every step of the way.”

 â€śThe woods are lovely, dark and deep. But I have promises to keep and miles to go before I sleep.”

“A promise means everything, but once it is broken, sorry means nothing.”

 â€śOn this promise day, I promise to always love you, support you, and be there for you no matter what.”

 â€śPromises are meant to be kept, and I promise to keep all the promises I make to you, now and forever.”

“Don’t promise me forever, just love me day by day.”

🔺 Promise Day Poetry :

Wait a minute my friend

 Let me understand the mind first 

 then exchange of words between us

 keep your eyes on my eyes

 next we walk together step by step 

 We will wipe our feets

 in the soft dew water of grass

 and we will walk

 from day to night

 in search of eternal dream

 Or until  you draw words

 into the grasshopper’s eyes

 The homeless wind

 will find a home 

.

 what happened

 Are not you surprised ?

 Don’t worry too much

 you fall in deep love

 .

 You say with love

 love is nectar

 Love is life

 Oh love friend

 don’t be lonely anymore…  

. 🌹Poem : Friend.   Poet : jotsna jari

FAQs :  Promise Day  2024 

1.  Which day is today like Promise Day?

Ans:-  February 11

, Promise Day.

2.  What is done in Promise Day?

Ans:-  As the name suggests, partners and lovers promise to stay together forever and express their feelings for each other

 on this day. Couples promise to stay by their partner’s side in good and bad times throughout their lives.

3.  What do you do on Promise Day?

Ans:-  Promise Day, as they say, is celebrated among couples and lovers by making promises to stick together through thick and thin

. However, this does not necessarily require to happen between couples, but promises can be kept between two best friends, siblings, and family too.

4.  What couples do Promise Day?

Ans:-  Today is the fifth day of Valentine’s Week, a time when couples make commitments to support and show their love for one another

. They express their deepest feelings and make unbreakable promises to one another, promising each other their enduring commitment, trust, and support.

5.  Why do we celebrate Promise Day?

Ans:-  Promise Day is celebrated on February 11 every year by couples to show their dedication towards each other and further strengthen their relationship

. Trust is an important aspect of a healthy and long-term relationship, and must be developed through promises, reassurances, and actions.

6.  What do you say on Promise Day?

Ans:-  â€śOn this promise day, I promise to always love you, support you, and be there for you no matter what

.” “Promises are meant to be kept, and I promise to keep all the promises I make to you, now and forever.” “I promise to hold your hand and walk with you through thick and thin, now and always.”

7.  What should I say on Promise Day?

Ans:-  I will never let you go

. Happy Promise Day! I promise that I never leave you, always be with you and make your life beautiful. I promise that you will be my only face and soul, you will be my heart without whom I could not live.

8.  How do you say happy Promise Day?

Ans:-  Take home the crown of the best boyfriend ever with these Happy Promise Day quotes.

 (1).  I promise to love you till eternity.

 (2).  Promise me that you will never leave me alone.

 (3).  I promise to never leave you at any point of time in my life. Happy Promise Day.

 (4).  Together, we make a beautiful life. Happy Promise Day Baby.

9.  What is Promise Day short note?

Ans:-  On Promise Day, celebrated on February 11, couples make promises to selflessly love each other for the rest of their lives. Such emotional promises and dedication to each other helps strengthen the relationship.

10.  What is the real meaning of promise? 

Ans:-  A declaration that one will do or refrain from doing something specified

. : a legally binding declaration that gives the person to whom it is made a right to expect or to claim the performance or forbearance of a specified act. : reason to expect something.

11.  What is the importance of promise?

Ans:-  Keeping a promise lays the foundation for trust and respect

. When our behavior is consistent, it allows others to build faith in us. Nurturing this behavior in children early on begins a pattern that leads to reliability and personal integrity.

12.  How many types of promises are there?

Ans:-  The Bible records two kinds of promises from the Lord—unconditional and conditional

.

13.  What are the types of promise in contract?

Ans:-  We have also discussed the various types of reciprocal promises (mutual and independent, conditional and concurrent

). We have also talked about the various rules that need to be followed with regards to reciprocal promises which are Sections 51-58 of the Indian Contract Act, 1872.

14.  What are the three states of promise?

Ans:-  A Promise is in one of these states:-

* pending: initial state, neither fulfilled nor rejected.

* fulfilled: meaning that the operation was completed successfully.

* rejected: meaning that the operation failed.

15.  What are the different states of promises?

Ans:-  A promise has three states:-

* pending: the promise is still in the works.

* fulfilled: the promise resolves successfully and returns a value.

* rejected: the promise fails with an error.

TEDDY DAY  

February 10, 2024

“Teddy means a few key 

to the unknown mistake…   

it opens the lock 

deep in the chest.”

– jotsna jari  đź’š

Teddy Day is a time to show love to our special persons and significant others by gifting them Teddy bears. It shows  how special they are to us and the warm & lovable feelings they bring to us, just like Teddies. This beautiful Day is the fourth important day of Valentine week celebrated every year on February 10 by the lovebirds. On this day, people give a Teddy bear to their beloved to express their feelings of love and romance. The cuddly Teddy bear or adorable soft toy will bring a lovely smile to your partner’s face.

The fluffiness and softness possess a calming ability that eases the mind and emotions. Research has found that cuddling them releases oxytocin. This Oxytocin hormone is also associated with empathy, trust, physical activity and relationship-building. This hormone is also called “Love Hormone”, because levels of oxytocin increase during hugging and orgasm. 

                                   Happy Teddy Day 

Stuffed Animal :-

Do you love Plush Animals  ?  

Don’t call Teddy bear as Toy…   Please  !! 

Here is great opportunity to celebrate  

the Teddy bear Day.

Now we show love & affection to our cute plush animal like Teddy bear. 

Yes. We simply show extra love to this plush animals and little extra care. This appreciation always wonderful for Valentine week. This is not just for lover- it’s also for the lover at heart. 

This Lovely plush animal is a fabric made from materials such as silk , cotton, polyester & wool, here that raises thickness of an eight of an inch. 

A stuffed animal is a toy doll. Stuffed toys are distinguishable from other toys mainly by their softness, flexibility, and resemblance to animals or fictional characters. Stuffed toys most commonly take the form of animals, especially bears (in the case of teddy bears), mammalian pets such as cats and dogs, and highly recognizable animals such as zebras, tigers, pandas, lizards, and elephants. Many fictional animal-like characters from movies, TV shows, books, or other entertainment forms often appear in stuffed toy versions, as do both real and fictional humans if the individual or character is famous enough. These toys are filled with soft plush material.

Psychology :- 

The children as well as adults can form connections with their Teddy bears(stuffed toys), often sleeping or cuddling with them for comfort. They can be sentimental objects that reduce anxiety around separation, self-esteem, and fear of the night. In 2019 about a third of British adults reported sleeping with this soft toys, and almost half had kept their childhood toys. 

According to Margaret Van Ackeren, licensed therapist, “In most instances, adults sleep with childhood stuffed animals because it brings them a sense of security and reduces negative feelings, such as loneliness and anxiety

.” That sense of security is important. So humans love stuffed animals. Yes. Valentine week is perfect for this Teddy bear celebration.

History : 

The first is the stuffed elephant

 created by Margarete Steiff in 1880, who first produced the toy based on a pattern she read in a magazine. She eventually started manufacturing thousands of these elephants, and Steiff’s company became one of the most popular in the world.

So the stuffed toy originated from the Steiff company of Germany in the late 19th century and gained popularity following the creation of the “Teddy” bear in the United States in 1903, at the same time the German toy inventor Richard Steiff designed a similar bear. In 1903, Peter Rabbit was the first fictional character to be made into a patented stuffed toy. In the 1970s, London-based Hamleys, the world’s oldest toy store, bought the rights to Paddington Bear stuffed toys. In the 1990s, Ty Warner created Beanie Babies, a series of animals stuffed with plastic pellets that were popular as collector’s items.

Celebration of Teddy Day : 

Now celebration of Teddy Day is very simple. Show your extra love to this plush animals and little extra care on this celebration day. Carry your favorite Teddy bear along with you to your school, office, or during shopping. You can buy this new plush toy on this day. You can show the world with all your plush toy collections and love towards them with a picture. Snap it and share it on social media using the hashtag-  #teddyday.

Invite your partner with Teddy bear. Arrange a small party with your lover at your home. 

Gift Teddy bear to your crush or partner.

🔺 Cultural Influence & Marketing :  

Stuffed toys are among the most popular toys, especially for children. Their uses include imaginative play, easy object, display or collecting, and gifts to both children and adults for any occasions.

Some adults even use stuffed animals as a form of love & comfort for their anxiety or depression

. The good feelings associated with a particular Teddy bear(plush toy) can help them to boost mental healths. But emotionally excessive dependence on plush is not right all time. 

In 2018, the global market for stuffed toys was estimated to be US$7.98 billion, with the growth in target consumers expected to drive sales upwards.

🔺 Teddy Day Poem :

You said that if my chest hurts,

you will bring me

a whole day

leisure and the fountain of dream.

.

You said that when the moon goes out,

you will be the moon in bed

With your head on the star pillow

then you will sing some tunes…  .

.

You said that rose buds

will spread caress on lips

in sleep & waking up…

.

How much spring

has come and gone

I did not wake up

in your touch.

.

So the moon went out

because you didn’t keep your promise

The spring wind

is still stopped…  

.

Yet the dream Teddy does not stop

The happiness of living

flies….   

.

🌹Poem : Dream Teddy 

     Poet : jotsna jari 

FAQs : Teddy Day  2024

1.  What is the Teddy Day Meaning?

Ans:-  Teddy Day is the fourth important day of the Valentine week celebrated every year on 10th February by the lovebirds. On this day, people give a teddy bear to their beloved to express their feelings of love and romance

.

2.  When did Teddy Day start ?

Ans:-  This was in 1907, shortly after teddy bears were first manufactured in Europe and America.

3.  Why is Teddy Day celebrated?

Ans:-  Teddy Day is a time to show love to our special persons and significant others by gifting them teddy bears

. It shows how special they are to us and the warm and lovable feelings they bring to us, just like teddies. 

4.  What do people do on Teddy Day?

Ans:-  February 10 – Teddy Day It is the celebration of all adorable things. The idea is to send your partner or crush a cuddly teddy bear or adorable soft toy that will help de-stress them or bring a smile to their face

.

5.  What is the story of Teddy Day?

Ans:-  Inspired by the cartoon, Morris Michtom, the proprietor of a Brooklyn candy shop, and his wife Rose decided to produce a plush toy bear for the president, who refused to shoot the bear. Michtom also sent a letter to the President, asking Roosevelt if it would be possible for the new toy to be called ‘Teddy Bear’.

6.  What is Teddy Day in Valentine Week?

Ans:-  Teddy Day: February 10 (Friday)

 Teddy bears are a sign of warmth, care, and affection, making them the ideal Valentine’s Day present for your loved one. To express their love and respect for one another, couples gift teddy bears.

7.  What is the celebration of Teddy Day?

Ans:-  Happy Teddy Day 2023: Wishes, Messages, Quotes, Images, Facebook & WhatsApp status. The fourth day of Valentine’s week, February 10

, is celebrated as Teddy Day. The significance of this day is as beautiful as the other days of the . valentine week where lovers express their love to each other.

8.  Who started Teddy Day?

Ans:-  The observation of Teddy Bear Day has roots back in 1902 when Theodore Roosevelt

 was serving as the 26th president of the United States.

9.  Why are Teddies so comforting?

Ans:-  Their fluffiness and softness possess a calming ability that eases the mind and emotions. Research has found that cuddling them releases oxytocin which calms the body.

10.  At what age should a child stop sleeping with Teddies?

Ans:-  There is no specific age limit to sleeping with or having teddies. More than just being toys, they are also tools of convenience.

11.  Can a baby sleep with a teddy?

Ans:-  It had been advised not to put stuffed toys beside children below 12 months because of the risks of death by strangulation or suffocation.

12.Why do adults love stuffed animals?

Ans:-  Some adults even use stuffed animals as a form of comfort for their anxiety or depression

. The good feelings associated with a particular plush toy can help them during difficult mental health periods. But emotionally excessive dependence on plush is not right all time. 

13.  Why do humans love stuffed animals?

Ans:-  According to Margaret Van Ackeren, licensed therapist, “In most instances, adults sleep with childhood stuffed animals because it brings them a sense of security and reduces negative feelings, such as loneliness and anxiety

.” That sense of security is important. So humans love stuffed animals. 

CHOCOLATE DAY 

February 9, 2024 

” If there is chocolate in your heart,

then chocolate really is the world’s

perfect food.” –  jotsna jari 💚

Dear Chocolate…   We love you. Chocolate just wonderful gift. Chocolate Day is celebrated every year on February 9, 2023. Now loved ones gift each other chocolates and relationship always remains sweet. Chocolates can be consumed as a drink, an edible bar etc. The love birds mark this Day with their emotions and love for each other in the form of romantic chocolate and more. Chocolates are enjoyed by all age groups and people consume it in different forms, either in the form of chocolate cake, chocolate ice cream, or chocolate mousse. The chocolate industry of Switzerland is magnificent and in the entire world the highest consumption of chocolate is in Switzerland. The History and Significance of Chocolate Day also important in Valentine’s week. Chocolate contains flavonoids that may help protect against heart disease. Dark chocolate is higher in flavonoids than other forms of chocolate. Remember to enjoy chocolate in moderation. Happy Chocolate Day forever. 

Happy Chocolate Day 

🔺 History : 

Over the years, chocolate and Valentine’s Day have become synonymous with each other. On this day, lovers and couples exchange tasty chocolates with each other as an expression of love and gratitude. People have different speculations regarding the origin of chocolate and how chocolate gained popularity among the public. The first Chocolate was introduced in Europe in 1550. Chocolate is manufactured from the fruit of cacao tree. The cacao tree was first grown around thousand years ago. Baker’s Chocolate was the first chocolate company that got set up in America. Later many chocolate companies were opened up in the 19th and early 20th centuries.

The word chocolate is originally said to be derived from the Spanish language. Some experts believe that the word chocolate comes from the maya and Aztec civilizations. In the Aztec language, chocolate means sour or bitter.

Chocolate is 4000 years old, it was born in Mesoamerica, which is today called Mexico. The people of mexico can also be credited with the discovery of chocolate. Those people are the first to see and use chocolate trees in the rainforests of the amazon basin. It was consumed as a beverage, its taste was bitter and pungent. In the beginning, chocolate was also used as a currency. 

Story of the king of Spain:

In 1521, the Spanish Empire defeated the Aztec Empire and annexed mexico into its empire and it came to be called New Spain. Meanwhile, the chocolate discovered in mexico reached Spain. The king of spain liked the taste of cocoa so much that he took cocoa seeds with him to Spain. This taste also became popular in a very short time among the people of Spain. When chocolate was entered in spain, it was considered full of medicinal properties. 

Chocolate’s europe Tour:

It is said that chocolate reached europe before coffee and tea. As soon as it reached europe, the demand for chocolate increased suddenly. In 1850, an Englishman made the first solid chocolate. He mixed cocoa butter and sugar in cocoa powder. From here was born the form of chocolate that is used today.

🔺 Significance : 

We should also know the manufacturing process of the chocolates. In the first step cocoa beans are roasted and by the process of roasting the color and taste gets developed in the chocolate. Then the cocoa liquor is formed by the process of grinding the beans. The cocoa liquor formed finally gets mixed with sugar and cocoa butter to form the final product that we consume. The product is loved by one and all so we dedicate a special day and celebrate it as Office Chocolate Day in our work place.

People have different opinions regarding the chocolates. Some say that by eating dark chocolates memory power gets increased. Chocolate is considered as a great source of antioxidants. Consuming chocolates can improve the blood flow and the risk of heart diseases gets lowered. The per capita consumption of chocolate in Switzerland is 8.8 kg. Some people prefer sweet chocolate whereas others like dark and bitter chocolates. On this chocolate day, lovers and couples exchange tasty chocolates with each other as an expression of love and gratitude.

🔺 Benefits :

1.  It Manages Their Stress :- 

Who isn’t stressed out these days? Both you and your employees are constantly under a pile of stress. Being stressed constantly can have a very negative effect on your overall health. To better control your stress, take a big bite of dark chocolate.

The dark chocolate will stimulate the production of endorphins in your body that will make you feel happy. Taking a little nibble here and there after lunch will not only help control your piling stress, but will keep you from hitting the dreaded 3 o’clock slump. Chocolate is packed with stimulants like theobromine and caffeine that will perk you up after lunch..

2.   It Will Keep Their Heart Healthy :- 

Consuming small amounts of dark chocolate throughout the week can help protect your employees from heart complications. Chocolate protects your heart from everything like heart attacks to hardening of arteries to poor blood flow.

3. It Boosts Their Immune System :- 

Keep your employees happy & healthy with chocolate. Dark chocolate has high levels of Catechins, which are proven to help boost your body’s immune system. As you know, once one employee gets sick, it’s a tissue filled domino effect from there. Run down to your snack vending machine and grab a bar of chocolate to defend yourself and your employees from coming down with a cold. Your employees will use less sick days, which will increase the workflow in your office.

4.  Feelings of love :- 

Eating Dark Chocolate releasesPhenylethylamine and Serotonin

. The chemical Phenylethylamine a chemical much like amphetamine is released in the brain when individuals feel love. The release of which is helped along by Serotonin, the combination of the increased levels of these chemicals induce feelings of love.

🔺Chocolate Day :  Quotes

1.  Caramels are only a food. Chocolate is a permanent thing.

2.  Chocolate is a gift of love to yourself.

3.  Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you’re gonna get.

4.  There is nothing better than a friend unless it is a friend with chocolate.

5.  Anything is good  if it’s made of chocolate.

6.  Chocolate is happiness that you can eat.

7.  Look, there’s no metaphysics on earth like chocolates. 

8.  As long as there is chocolate, there will be happiness. 

9.  When we don’t have the words, Chocolate can speak volumes.

10.  When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.  

🔺 Chocolate Day Poem : 

Come to the sunshine of dream

 we embrace happiness 

 The neighborhood is covered

 in sleep and fog 

 The dews whisper on the street 

 how much it speaks in silence…  

 Did you walk

 on a foggy morning 

 With the random talk of curly life…  

 are you sitting 

 in front of the heat of fire…  

 Let us burn away 

 the days of old pain 

 Even if there is no festival & celebration

 on the beginning of the year in new life… 

 we tie our hands 

 in the bridge of mind & human bond

 I bend my knees and say… 

 All the best 

 The sound of the bell

 in the quiet night

 find the way

 in the sweet dawn… 

 All the best.  

.

🌹Poem  : Chocolate Day Celebration

     Poet  :  jotsna jari 

FAQs : Chocolate Day 2024

1.  Why do we celebrate Chocolate Day?

Ans:-  Every year, on February 09, the world celebrates Chocolate day to express their love for their loved ones

. It is one of the most cherished days of the complete Valentine’s week as it consists of taste buds.

2.  What was the significance of Chocolate Day ?

Ans:-  The main intent of Chocolate Day is to let your partner know how sweet you find them and how wholesome they make your life

. The day is for all chocolate lovers to unite and celebrate their favourite chocolate and gift their loved ones the same.

3.  How do you celebrate Chocolate Day?

Ans:-  Chocolate Day (9th Feb): Choose chocolates that your partner loves, such as dark chocolate, milk chocolate, or white chocolate

. You could also consider pairing the chocolates with a romantic card or a bouquet of flowers to make the gesture even sweeter.

4.  What is the date of Chocolate Day in February?

Ans:-  February 9 – Chocolate Day Chocolate Day, observed on February 9, is the third day of Valentine’s Week. People exchange chocolates with their crushes or lovers, forgetting any unpleasant and nasty sentiments in their relationships.

5.  What does chocolate do to your hormones?

Ans:-  Four chemicals are known to be released by the brain when eating chocolate: endorphins, serotonin, dopamine, and oxytocin

. These chemicals are used by neurons to communicate with one another.

6.  Which hormone is related to chocolate?

Ans:-  Cocoa (the primary ingredient used to make chocolates), according to various studies, triggers the brain to release endorphins

, the “feel good” hormones. However, dark chocolate triggers maximum endorphin release.

7.  Does chocolate give you oxytocin?

Ans:-  Yes, chocolate can improve your mood. It increases the release of oxytocin

, a hormone responsible for feelings of pleasure.

8.  Is chocolate a love drug?

Ans:-  When consumed, it releases endorphins in your brain that produce a mild feeling of euphoria, mimicking the sensation of being in love. So chocolate really is a love drug!