Jotsna Jari is an exceptionally powerful poet.Her poetry is as precious as diamond. The poem contains new reflection of life.
The structure & style of the poems are simply outstanding. She used myths in an impeccable way.
People, family, society, war, politics and economy… everything is the language of this poetry. Her poem always reinvents life & time.She uses space with extraordinary skill.
Her stories, rhymes, songs, poems, dramas & novels have been published in different languages. Some books also published. All her creations are new inventions.
The eternal poems are documents of time. All these poems become the link between the world and the universe.
My happiness begins with you. You are the reason who I am. You are my Valentine.
Yes. Now this is Valentine’s Day. Love and Romance just begin. This wonderful Day is celebrated annually on February 14. All lovers express their affection with greetings and gifts. This beautiful Day has expanded to express affection between relatives and friends. This fantastic Day origins in Roman festival of Lupercalia, held in mid-February, The festival (which celebrated the coming of spring) included fertility rites and the pairing off of women with men by lottery. At the end of the 5 th century, Pope Gelasius। forbid the celebration of Lupercalia and replaced it with St. Valentine’s Day. But Valentine’s Day did not come to be celebrated as a day of romance until 14th century. In 2020, National Retail Federation surveyed that Americans planned to spend $1.3 billion on Valentines.
Happy Valentine’s Day
🔺History :
Although there have been several Christian martyrs named Valentine, the day was probably named after a priest who was martyred around 270 CE by Emperor Claudius II Gothicus. According to legend, the priest signed a letter “From your Valentine” to his jailer’s daughter, with whom he befriended. He cured that girl from blindness. This priest was St. Valentine of Turney, a bishop, for whom Valentine’s Day is named. Thst priest(St. Valentine) defied the emperor’s orders and secretly married couples to spare the husbands from war. It is for this reason that his feast day is associated with love.
Valentine’s Day as a lovers’ festival dates at least from the 14th century.
The Parliament of Birds, 18th century oil painting by W. d. Hamilton
🔺 St. Valentine :
Saint Valentine
Saint Valentine, (died 3rd century, Rome; feast day February 14), the name of one or two legendary Christian martyrs whose lives appear to be historically based. Although the Roman Catholic Church continues to recognize Saint Valentine as a church saint, he was removed from the common Roman calendar in 1969 due to a lack of reliable information about him. He is the patron saint of lovers, epileptics and beekeepers.
According to some accounts, Saint Valentine was a Roman priest and physician who was martyred during the persecution of Christians by Emperor Claudius II Gothicus around 270 AD. He was buried in the Via Flaminia and Pope Julius I is said to have built a basilica over his summer. Other accounts identify him as the bishop of Tarni in Italy, who was martyred, apparently also in Rome, and whose relics were later taken to Tarni. It is possible that these are different versions of the same original account and refer to only one person.
A relic of Saint Valentine in the church of Santa Maria in Cosmedin, Rome
The flower-crowned alleged skull of St. Valentine is exhibited in the Basilica of Santa Maria in Cosmedin, Rome.
🔺 Celebrate Valentine’s Day :
Formal messages, or valentines, appeared in the 1500s, and commercially printed cards were used in the late 1700s. The first commercial valentines were printed in the United States in the mid-1800s. Valentines usually depict Cupid, the Roman god of love, with a heart, traditionally the seat of passion. Because it was thought that the avian mating season began in mid-February, birds also became symbols of the day. Traditional gifts include candy and flowers, especially red roses, a symbol of beauty and love.
Valentine’s Day is commonly celebrated by exchanging handmade or store-bought “Valentines” (greeting cards) or other tokens of affection like chocolates and flowers. In many schools, it has become customary for young students to bring in Valentines to swap with classmates. Traditions of the holiday’s observance can vary with the country.
Love birds celebrate by exchange of gifts of love. In social media use hashtag-
#happyvalentineday
#Valentineday
🔺 Valentine’s Day in Literature :
🔹 Geoffrey Chaucer’s poem The Parlement of Foules, which he wrote in 1380–90, first connected the day with romance. The earliest letters between lovers referring to St. Valentine’s Day began to appear soon after the poem’s publication in the 14th century.
Chaucer wrote :-
“For this was on Saint Valentine’s Day When every bird comes there to choose his match Of every kind that men may think of And that so huge a noise they began to make That earth and air and tree and every lake Was so full, that not easily was there space For me to stand—so full was all the place.”
“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” – Aristotle
“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” – Lao Tzu
“Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused.” – Paulo Coelho
“The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that’s what you’ve given me. That’s what I’d hoped to give you forever.” – Nicholas Sparks
“I love you not only for what you are but for what I am when I am with you.” – Elizabeth Barrett Browning
“Each time you love, love as deeply as if it were forever.” — Audre Lorde.
“Love is when the desire to be desired takes you so badly that you feel you could die of it.” — Henri de Toulouse-Lautrec.
“One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love.” — Sophocles.
FAQs : Valentine’s Day 2024
1. What is Valentine’s Day?
Ans:- Valentine’s Day is a holiday when lovers express their affection with greetings and gifts. It is also called St. Valentine’s Day. The holiday has expanded to express affection between relatives and friends.
2. When is Valentine’s Day?
Ans:- Valentine’s Day is celebrated annually on February 14.
3. Who is Valentine’s Day named for?
Ans:- Although there were several Christian martyrs named Valentine, Valentine’s Day may have taken its name from a priest who was martyred about 270 CE by the Roman emperor Claudius II Gothicus. Other accounts hold that it was St. Valentine of Terni, a bishop, for whom the holiday was named, though it is possible that the two saints were actually one person.
4. Where is Valentine’s Day celebrated?
Ans:- Valentine’s Day is popular in the United States as well as in Britain, Canada, and Australia, and it is also celebrated in other countries, including Argentina, France, Mexico, and South Korea. In the Philippines, it is the most common wedding anniversary.
5. From when Valentine’s Day is lovers’ festival dates ?
Ans:- Valentine’s Day as a lovers’ festival dates at least from the 14th century.
6. What is a good quote for Valentine’s Day?
Ans:- “I think the perfection of love is that it’s not perfect
.” “The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart.” “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” “Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself.”
7. What is the best romantic Valentine quotes?
Ans:- “If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.” “True love stories never have endings.” “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” “There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved.”
8. What is the best valentine message?
Ans:- Wishing you a beautiful day filled with all the love and happiness you deserve
. You’re the only person I send heart eye emojis to. Valentine, you take my breath away, every single day. It’s just one day in the year, but you should know that I love you every day and every moment.Take my love on this beautiful occasion!
9. What are 5 motivational quotes?
Ans:- “Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.” ―Theodore Roosevelt.
‘It’s never too late to be what you might’ve been.” ―George Eliot.
“If you can dream it, you can do it.” ―Walt Disney.
“Trust yourself that you can do it and get it.” ―Baz Luhrmann.
10. What is true love short line?
Ans:- True love – that is, deep, abiding love that is impervious to emotional whims or fancy
– is a choice. It’s a constant commitment to a person regardless of the present circumstances. True love lasts forever.
11. What is the real meaning of Valentine?
Ans:- The name Valentine comes from a Latin word meaning “strength.”
There are many legends about it, but it’s ultimately unclear how Valentine’s Day became associated with the tradition of exchanging the affectionate gifts and love notes that we call valentines.
12. Who is called Valentine?
Ans:- Valentine’s Day is named after Saint Valentine
, a Catholic priest who lived in Rome in the 3rd Century. There are many stories about St Valentine and over time these stories grew into the legend we know today.
13. Is Valentine only for lovers?
Ans:- In fact, it can be celebrated by anyone who wants to express their affection for someone special, regardless of their relationship status. Valentine’s Day is a day for celebrating love, not just romantic love between couples.
Kiss has a healing power or There is no gift greater than a sweet kiss… Do you believe !! Then Kiss Day just for you.
Kiss Day originated from the United Kingdom. This is celebrated every year on February 13. The unique idea behind kissing is showing your love towards your partner. Partners seal their relationship through a sweet kiss. The kiss is used to convey closeness, passion, commitment, affection and devotion. Kiss is the great way to show your hidden feelings without use of any words. So a tender kiss can express love better than a thousand words. The main aim behind the celebration of Kiss Day is strengthen your relationship. This Day is a Golden Day in Valentine’s week. Homer writes about King Priam showing respect by kissing the hand of Achilles and he intercedes on behalf of his son (800-900 BC). After the conquest of Alexander the Great, the practice of kissing spreads yo the West (326 BC). First “open-mouthed” kiss occurs between Greta Garbo and John Gilbert in the film “Flesh and the Devil” (1926).
Happy Kiss Day
Kiss is the touch or pressing of one’s lips against another person or an object. Cultural connotations of kissing vary widely. Depending on the culture and context, a kiss can express sentiments of love, passion, romance, sexual attraction, sexual activity, sexual arousal, affection, respect, greeting, peace, and good luck, among many others. In some situations, a kiss is a ritual, formal or symbolic gesture indicating devotion, respect, or a sacramental. The word came from Old English cyssan (“to kiss”), in turn from coss (“a kiss”).
🔺 History :
Anthropologists disagree on whether kissing is an instinctual or learned behavior.
Some researchers believe that kissing began millions of years ago as a result of mouth-to-mouth feeding, with mammal mothers chewing food and then “forcing it” into the mouths of their young.
University of Nevada Las Vegas, found that only 46% use lip-to-lip kissing in a romantic sense, excluding things like parent-child kissing or greetings.
The earliest reference to kissing-like behavior comes from the Vedas, Sanskrit scriptures that informed Hinduism, Buddhism, and Jainism, around 3,500 years ago, according to Vaughn Bryant, an anthropologist at Texas A&M University who specializes in the history of the kiss.
The Indian epic poem “Mahabharata” describes kissing on the lips as a sign of affection. The “Mahabharata” was passed down orally for several hundred years before being written down and standardized around 350 A.D. The Indian religious text “Vatsyayana Kamasutram,” or the “Kama Sutra,” also describes a variety of kisses. It was written in the 6th century A.D. Anthropologists who believe that kissing is a learned behavior theorize that the Greeks learned about it when Alexander the Great invaded India in 326 B.C.
A fresco from Pompeii showing the kiss of Roman couple.
There aren’t many records of kissing in the Western world until the days of the Roman Empire. Romans used kisses to greet friends and family members. Citizens kissed their rulers’ hands. And, naturally, people kissed their romantic partners. The Romans even came up with three different categories for kissing :
*Osculum was a kiss on the cheek.
*Basium was a kiss on the lips.
*Savolium was a deep kiss.
Kissing was not always an indication of eros, or love, but also could show respect and rank as it was used in Medieval Europe.
The study of kissing started sometime in the nineteenth century and is called philematology.
🔺 Importance and significance :
Kiss day was borne out of the idea that many people forget the pleasure one can gain from the single act of kissing. It is the best way to make others feel loved and express love in return. The simple pleasure of kissing your partner before leaving for work or after coming back from a long day has lost its essence in the fast pace of the modern world. But kiss day aims to revive the celebration of expressing love. Whenever your love starts fading out, you can simply rekindle the romance by a minimum act of intimacy each day.
🔺 Health benefits :
Kissing stimulates the production of hormones responsible for a good mood: oxytocin, which releases the feeling of love and strengthens the bond with the partner, endorphins – hormones responsible for the feeling of happiness –, and dopamine, which stimulates the pleasure center in the brain . Regular kissing protects against depression. Affection in general has stress-reducing effects. Kissing in particular has been studied in a controlled experiment and it was found that increasing the frequency of kissing in marital and cohabiting relationships results in a reduction of perceived stress, an increase in relationship satisfaction, and a lowering of cholesterol levels.
🔺 Disease transmission :
Kissing on the lips can result in the transmission of some diseases, including infectious mononucleosis (known as the “kissing disease”) and herpes simplex when the infectious viruses are present in saliva. Research indicates that contraction of HIV via kissing is extremely unlikely, although there was a documented case in 1997 of an HIV infection by kissing. Both the woman and infected man had gum disease, so transmission was through the man’s blood, not through saliva.
🔺 Kiss Day Poetry :
*** Both lip and tongue kissing are mentioned in Sumerian [ Mesopotamia (south-central Iraq), 4500 BC ] poetry:-
My lips are too small, they know not to kiss.
My precious sweet, lying by my heart,
 one by one “tongue making,” one by one.
When my sweet precious, my heart, had lain down too,
each of them in turn kissing with the tongue, each in turn.
*** Kissing is described in the surviving ancient Egyptian love poetry from the New Kingdom, found on papyri…
excavated at Deir el-Medina:-
Finally I will drink life from your lips
and wake up from this ever lasting sleep.
The wisdom of the earth in a kiss
and everything else in your eyes.
I kiss her before everyone
that they all may see my love.
And when her lips are pressed to mine
I am made drunk and need not wine.
When we kiss, and her warm lips half
open,
I fly cloud-high without beer!
His kisses on my lips, my breast, my hair…
…Come! Come! Come! And kiss me when I die,
For life, compelling life, is in thy breath;
And at that kiss, though in the tomb I lie,
I will arise and break the bands of Death.
*** Roman poets such as Catullus celebrated kissing, as, for example,
in Catullus 8 :-
Goodbye girl, now Catullus is firm,/ He doesn’t search for you, won’t ask unwillingly./ But you’ll grieve, when nobody asks./ Woe to you, wicked girl, what life’s left for you?/ Who’ll submit to you now? Who’ll see your beauty?/ Who now will you love? Whose will they say you’ll be?/ Who will you kiss? Whose lips will you bite?/ But you, Catullus, be resolved to be firm.
[ Catullus(84 – 54 BC) is ancient Rome’s greatest poet.
His poems are the best examples of Latin poetry. ]
***Modern Poetry :-
Before the fog of strangers cleared,
he called me & said,
How are you… what are you doing ?
Just before giving the right answer
distanced mountain &
the light of the tower were seen…
Shal flowers laughed
in absolute crowd.
Nepali girls spreading their legs
on the green lawn
are laughing
Continuous nightingale song…
You stood on the other side of the road
Then I am picking up
one thorn after another
from the hem of cotton sari.
.🌹 Poem : Hidden Kiss
Poet : jotsna jari
FAQs : Kiss Day 2024Â
1. What is Kiss day India?
Ans:- Kiss Day is celebrated on February 13
, and it is considered a golden day in Valentine’s week. This is the day when you express your love for your beloved in the most romantic fashion, where you profess your love through feelings and not words. A tender kiss can express love better than a thousand words.
2. What is Kiss Day date?
Ans:- February 13 is also celebrated as International Kiss Day. It falls a day before Valentine’s Day which is celebrated on February 14 all over the world as the day of love. Kiss Day precedes valentine’s Day.
3. What is Japanese kiss day?
Ans:- May 23rd
is “Kiss Day” because it’s the day that saw the release in 1946 of the first Japanese film with a kissing scene, Hatachi no seishun (20-Year-Old Youth). Not surprisingly, the scene was a decorous one by the standards of today but at the time it was a big deal.
4. Why International Kissing Day?
Ans:- International Kissing Day itself is not only about French kissing your significant other, but to bring people closer in general
. The main idea behind it was that so many people have forgotten the simple pleasures associated with kissing for kissing’s sake, as opposed to kissing as mere social formality.
5. How to Wish Kiss Day?
Ans:- Wishing you a kiss day filled with all the love and affection your heart desires
. Happy kiss day to the one who steals my heart with every kiss. May your kiss day be as sweet and special as you are. Wishing you a day full of tender kisses and loving moments.
6. What happens in Kiss Day?
Ans:- Kiss Day is celebrated on February 13, and it is considered a golden day in Valentine’s week. This is the day when you express your love for your beloved in the most romantic fashion, where you profess your love through feelings and not words
. A tender kiss can express love better than a thousand words.
7. Why do people celebrate Kiss Day?
Ans:- Significance of Kiss Day It provides an opportunity for people to express their love and affection to those they care about
, setting the stage for a more romantic and intimate celebration on Valentine’s Day itself. It basically happens to be a fun and meaningful way to celebrate love and affection.
8. Is it National kiss Your Girlfriend day?
Ans:- National Kissing Day, on June 22, is all about showing your love and improving your health. That’s right, kissing is actually good for you.
9. Is today National kiss your BF day?
Ans:- This event is always observed on April 28
.
10. What is the K-I-S-S-I-N-G rhyme?
Ans:- Familiar to children in the US and the UK, often with embarrassing consequences, the song goes like this:
“John and Mary (or any two names)
sitting in a tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G,
first comes love, then come marriage,
then comes baby
in a baby carriage!”
11. Who invented kissing and why?
Ans:- While the true origin of kissing remains a mystery, historians have found in India the earliest references to the practice
. Four major texts in the Vedic Sanskrit literature suggest an early form of kissing. Dating from 1500 B.C., they describe the custom of rubbing and pressing noses together.
12. When did humans first start kissing?
Ans:- First Recorded Kiss (circa 1500 B.C.
). Whatever the case, the earliest known written mentions of it are in Vedic Sanskrit scriptures circa 1500 B.C., according to research by Vaughn Bryant, an anthropology professor at Texas A&M University.
13. What is the history of a kiss?
Ans:- The earliest reference to kissing-like behavior comes from the Vedas, Sanskrit scriptures that informed Hinduism, Buddhism, and Jainism, around 3,500 years ago
, according to Vaughn Bryant, an anthropologist at Texas A&M University who specializes in the history of the kiss.
14. How did humans start kissing?
Ans:- Many scientists believe that kissing came from the practice of kiss-feeding
, where mothers would feed their young mouth-to-mouth. Imagine birds feeding worms to their little chicks.
“Spring air also in the home I will not go anywhere Hug & happiness returned with quiet & silent time Yaaa…Â Â this little can be expected.” Â Â Â – jotsna jari đź’š
The hug is a form of endearment, universal in most human communities, in which two or more people put their arms around neck, back or waist of one another and hold each other closely. The “HUG” (first used in 1560s) could be related to the Old Norse word “HUGGA”. The hypothesis is that the word is related to the German word “HEGEN”. Hugs are an essential form of physical touch. This can be a sign of romantic, security, emotional support, friendship or love. The hug, sometimes in association with a kiss, is a form of non verbal communication. To celebrate this manifestation of love, Hug Day is commemorated on February 12. every year. The hug is one of the most natural gestures. This lovely day encourages hugging, as a therapeutic way to convey affection and emotions. We love all types of hugs, from one-armed hug to full hug. So let’s get hugging !!
Happy Hug Day
🔺 History :
The word “hug” is believed to come from the ancient Scandinavian word “hugga” meaning “hippy,” — actually, it means “to comfort.”
Hugging involves both hands, so it’s likely it was a way to prove friendship . It’s ingrained in our culture.
Research shows that babies wither without hugs from their mothers and that holding and touching reduces anxiety, improves sleep and helps us empathize with others as we grow up.
They have been determined to be approximately 6000 years old
, so we know for sure that people already hugged each other in Neolithic times. When we hug, we wrap our arms around another person.
🔺Scientific Facts About Hugging :
1). The average hug time 3.17 seconds :-
A study led by Ms Nagy from the University of Dundee analyzed 188 spontaneous hugs between athletes and their coaches, competitors and supporters during the 2008 Summer Olympic Games (Nagy, 2011).
The results : The average hug lasted 3.17 seconds and was not affected by the gender composition of the hugging pair or the nationalities of the two huggers.
2). Humans have hugged each other since thousands of years :-
No one knows when the first hug between two humans took place, but we do know that hugs have been in the human behavioral repertoire for at least several thousand years. In 2007, a team of archaeologists discovered the so-called “Valdaro’s Lover” in a Neolithic tomb near Mantua, Italy (Stewart, 2007). The lovers are a pair of human skeletons buried in a tight embrace. They have been dated to approximately 6000 years old, so we know for sure that people were already hugging each other during the Neolithic period.
The Lovers of Valdaro in Italy, male skeleton is on the left, and the
female skeleton is on the right.
3). Hug to the Right :-
We found that overall, most people hugged to the right. In the emotionally neutral situation in which strangers hugged a blindfolded person, 92% hugged to the right. However, in more emotional situations, that is, when people hugged their friends or partners at the airport, only about 81% of people hugged to the right. Since the left hemisphere of the brain controls the right half of the body and vice versa, we believe that this leftward shift in hugging is due to a greater involvement of the right hemisphere of the brain for emotional processes during hugging in these situations.
4). Hugging improves Health :-
Individuals who had received a hug from their partner prior to being stressed showed significantly lower blood pressure and heart rate than those who did not touch their partners. Thus, hugging leads to lower reactivity to stressful events and may benefit cardiovascular health.
🔺 Sweet & Warm SMS, Messages & Quotes :
1. If a hug could convey how much I love you, I would hold you in my arms forever.
2. Sending your way a warm hug, to let you know that I am thinking of you and I miss you.
3. Sending you a hug to ease your stress a kiss to make you smile and my heart to say, I’m thinking of you. Happy hug day!!
4. You can’t wrap love in a box, but you can wrap a person in a hug. That must be why God gave us arms. So here is a hug for you on this hug day.
5. There is one gift which can’t be given without taking it back that is why I give you a hug, happy hugging day!!
6. A hug is a way to share joy, happiness, and sadness, I want to hug you, as I want to share everything with you.
7. I want to hug you so tightly, and want to make you mine forever.
8. Sending you today a hug from across the miles so warm and tight, the distances would disappear, and you’d know how much I love you!
9. A hug is a handshake from the heart, and I am sure a hug will help you feel calm and happy.
10. A hug is a language of love. Let me express that, it is still unspoken between us.
11. I have a lot of love for you. Hug me and let it flow in your soul.
12. In the warmth of my hug, you will feel the depth of my emotion.
13. There is one gift in this world giving which is as good as receiving. And I give it to you today.
14. A hug warms, delights and charms. It’s the best gift to give to your beloved, and I’m sending you one today.
15. I know you love gifts. I am sending you one that is huge. It’s a hug from me to you!
16. Never wait until tomorrow to hug someone. You could hug today because when you give the one you get one right back your way.
17. Sometimes it’s better to put love into hugs than to put it into words.
18. A hug is a great gift- one size fits all, and it’s easy to exchange.
19. Hugging is a silent way of saying, “you matter to me”. Happy hug day.
20. It is always the perfect time to hug your loved one, just hug and feel the warmth of love. Happy hug day.
21. A hug is a loving gift that costs no money and can be distributed for free to make the love grow. Happy hug day.
22. Feel the presence of love, wrapped up within a hug. Happy hug day.
23. Sending the warmest hugs to the coolest friend I have, happy hug day.
24. A hug might be the simplest gesture but it feels amazing, happy hug day.
🔺 7 Types Of Hugs & Relationships :
1. Side hug :-
A side hug is when two parties hug each other with their arms around their waist or the other person’s shoulders. Usually they stand side by side, one using the left hand and the other using the right hand.
This hug is more between acquaintances than friends.
2. Friend hug :-
A friend hug is a traditional, two-armed hug where both people’s chests are touching.
3. Hugging from behind :-
This hug indicates a romantic relationship or a parent-child relationship.
4. Hugging around the waist :-
With this type of hug, both partners’ waists are completely aligned and their arms are wrapped around each other’s waists. In this position, they can lean back and look at each other in the eyes.
This is an intimate romantic hug, which provides an opening for someone to make the next move.
5. Bear Hugs :-
Bear hugs are usually done standing up. It’s like a normal hug but much closer, tighter and usually longer. Bear hugs can also be taken while lying down, what Mattenson calls a “blanket of love,” lying on top of one.
6. One-sided hug :-
In a one-sided hug, both people are facing each other. One is usually receiving the hug while the other is giving it. The receiver is typically limp with their arms by their side. The giver (or supporter) is squeezing the other one tightly.
7. Heart-to-heart hugs :-
In a heart-to-heart hug, both huggers approach the hug from their left sides, so their hearts touch first. This can be done in a standing or sitting position. While sitting, your arms and legs can be intertwined. Mattenson recommends holding it for three minutes or longer.
🔺 Hug Day Poem :
You were a long way traveler
then you came near
Stay together for a few days
you got pain
from the thron
The soft scent
of some flowers
was shared between twos
This is how the journey begins
our words… our pain
all remained ours
who cares about that
.
I will walk the way of the world…
with the world
With this hope…
I keep hand in your hand.
Ah… the soul of my life
the song you wrote with the melody
is still alive today
But the pain remains
I sew the words together
Keeping the head on grass…
with the light of moon & sun on chest
we fill both of our house
with hug happiness…
🌹 Poem : Companion.
Poet : jotsna jari
FAQs : Hug Day 2024
1. Why is Hug Day celebrated?
Ans:- Hug Day is celebrated on February 12 — the sixth day of Valentine’s Week. You can celebrate this day with your loved ones by giving them a warm and comforting hug, which will help them forget about their life’s difficulties, even if it’s momentarily
. Just a firm hug is enough to show how much you care.
2. Who can celebrate Hug Day?
Ana:- Those who are away from their loved ones
on Hug Day, send Hug Day messages and gifts to their partners and loved ones. While Hug Day on February 12 is celebrated as a part of the Valentine’s Day celebrations, there is another day too that celebrates hugs. National Hugging Day is celebrated every year on January 21.
2.) “Hug is the perfect way to tell someone that you love him or her. …
3.) “Happy Hug Day to you. …
4.) “When I hug you, my heart finds happiness and my soul finds peace.5.) I’m sending you a big, warm hug and all my love.6.) Happy hug day!
Your warm embrace is the best feeling in the world!
4. When was hugging first invented?
Ans:- They have been determined to be approximately 6000 years old
, so we know for sure that people already hugged each other in Neolithic times. When we hug, we wrap our arms around another person.
5. Who discovered the hug?
Ans:- It’s not a casual gesture of affection; it’s a profound one, and it was invented by the Welsh
.
6. Why do humans hug?
Ans:- A hug can indicate support, comfort, and consolation, particularly where words are insufficient
. A hug usually demonstrates affection and emotional warmth, sometimes arising from joy or happiness when reunited with someone or seeing someone absent after a long time.
7. Why do humans crave hugs?
Ans:- Oxytocin is a chemical in our bodies that scientists sometimes call the “cuddle hormone.” This is because its levels rise when we hug, touch, or sit close to someone else
. Oxytocin is associated with happiness and less stress. Scientists have found that this hormone has a strong effect in women.
8. When was hugging discovered?
Ans:- China skeletons 1,500-years-old
discovered hugging in ‘love’ embrace.
9. Why is a hug so powerful?
Ans:- Hugs release oxytocin
Oxytocin is often called the “love hormone,” and it’s released when we cuddle or bond. It’s the reason why being hugged feels so good. So when you’re feeling down, give someone a squeeze and feel your mood lift.
10. Did you know facts about hugs?
Ans:- Even a 20-second hug releases enough oxytocin to make you feel better.
Reduce inflammation.
Improve wound healing.
Lessen cravings for drugs, alcohol, and sweets.
Lower heart rate and stress.
11. Which day is celebrated on the Valentine’s week?
A promise is a commitment by someone to do or not do something. As a verb Promise is to tell someone that you will certainly do something. As a noun It means a declaration assuring that one will or will not do something. The fifth day of Valentine’s week is Promise Day where couples or lovers make unbreakable vows to each other, and promise & profess their love & commitment for life to each other.
Promises can be kept between two best friends, siblings and family too. Promise Day is celebrated on February 11 every year by couples & love birds to show their dedication towards each other and further strengthen their relationship. Trust is an important aspect of a healthy and long-term relationship, and must be developed through promises, reassurances and actions.
A large number of young people give roses to propose to their prospective girlfriend or boyfriend.
🔺 Different states of promises :
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A promise has three states:-
* pending: the promise is still in the works.
* fulfilled: the promise resolves successfully and returns a value.
* rejected: the promise fails with an error.
🔺 Three Types of Promises :
What is obvious to me may not be obvious to you.
Trust in relationships is based on our ability to communicate with each other in unison. Healthy relationships are based on making promises, keeping promises, and managing promises. Commitment is the foundation of our identity, our effectiveness and our well-being.
We may not call them commitments, but commitments are agreements and decisions about who will do what, when, and how. A promise is a promise to ourselves and a promise to others.
We cannot share commitments without shared understanding. Our expectations are based on the promises we make.
Unspoken expectations are premeditative broken promises.
People do not care about your expectations. Or mine. They care about the commitments we make and keep.
A promise is a personal commitment people expect you to honor.
There are 3 types of promises :-
* Strong/Healthy Promises –
Promises I am fully committed to keep; You can count on me.
If I am unable to keep my promise, I can renegotiate my original promise
i.e. I will meet you for coffee at 8 am. I will complete my assignment on time.
* Shallow Promises –
Look like a strong promise, but an unspoken condition exists.
i.e. Yes, I will play golf with you on Saturday (unless it rains or something else comes up)
* Criminal Promises –
Promises that at the moment we make them, we know we have no intention of keeping
i.e. Maybe…My son asks me to play with him when I am done, and I tell him maybe
Promises unkept are NOT equal to expectations unmet.
What promises are you making?
Are you honoring those promises?
What promises are you fully committed to honoring?
What promises do you need to renegotiate?
Personal integrity and honor depends on owning and delivering on the promises we make. Relationship trust is too valuable to take for granted.
Commit to making STRONG HEALTHY promises.
🔺 Promise Day Philosophy :
Every advantage of promise in the past is judged in the light of the final issue.
– Demosthenes
Philosophers have tried to establish rules for promises. Immanuel Kant suggested promises should always be kept, while some consequentialists argue that promises should be broken whenever doing so would yield benefits. In How to Make Good Decisions and Be Right All the Time, Iain King tried to reconcile these positions, suggesting that promises should be kept ‘unless they are worth less to others than a new option is to you, and that this requires a relevant, unforeseen and reasonably unforeseeable change in the situation more important than the promise itself arising after the promise is made.
Cover of the first edition
🔺 Celebrate Promise Day 2024 :
Promise Day can be wonderful by eternal promises. Many couples have own ideas how to celebrate it. Many couples often get stuck while writing promises to each other. The best promise day ideas are handwritten letters, love contracts, promise rings, promise cards, and dedicating a song.
In social media use hashtag – #promiseday #happypromiseday
🔺 Promise Day Quotes :
“I promise to hold your hand and walk with you through thick and thin, now and always.”
“On this promise day, I promise to always be honest, faithful, and loyal to you.”
“I promise to stand by you in all ups and downs of life and make our journey together a beautiful one.”
“On this promise day, I promise to always trust and believe in you, and be there for you every step of the way.”
“The woods are lovely, dark and deep. But I have promises to keep and miles to go before I sleep.”
“A promise means everything, but once it is broken, sorry means nothing.”
“On this promise day, I promise to always love you, support you, and be there for you no matter what.”
“Promises are meant to be kept, and I promise to keep all the promises I make to you, now and forever.”
“Don’t promise me forever, just love me day by day.”
🔺 Promise Day Poetry :
Wait a minute my friend
Let me understand the mind first
then exchange of words between us
keep your eyes on my eyes
next we walk together step by step
We will wipe our feets
in the soft dew water of grass
and we will walk
from day to night
in search of eternal dream
Or until you draw words
into the grasshopper’s eyes
The homeless wind
will find a home
.
what happened
Are not you surprised ?
Don’t worry too much
you fall in deep love
.
You say with love
love is nectar
Love is life
Oh love friend
don’t be lonely anymore…
. 🌹Poem : Friend. Poet : jotsna jari
FAQs : Promise Day 2024
1. Which day is today like Promise Day?
Ans:- February 11
, Promise Day.
2. What is done in Promise Day?
Ans:- As the name suggests, partners and lovers promise to stay together forever and express their feelings for each other
on this day. Couples promise to stay by their partner’s side in good and bad times throughout their lives.
3. What do you do on Promise Day?
Ans:- Promise Day, as they say, is celebrated among couples and lovers by making promises to stick together through thick and thin
. However, this does not necessarily require to happen between couples, but promises can be kept between two best friends, siblings, and family too.
4. What couples do Promise Day?
Ans:- Today is the fifth day of Valentine’s Week, a time when couples make commitments to support and show their love for one another
. They express their deepest feelings and make unbreakable promises to one another, promising each other their enduring commitment, trust, and support.
5. Why do we celebrate Promise Day?
Ans:- Promise Day is celebrated on February 11 every year by couples to show their dedication towards each other and further strengthen their relationship
. Trust is an important aspect of a healthy and long-term relationship, and must be developed through promises, reassurances, and actions.
6. What do you say on Promise Day?
Ans:- “On this promise day, I promise to always love you, support you, and be there for you no matter what
.” “Promises are meant to be kept, and I promise to keep all the promises I make to you, now and forever.” “I promise to hold your hand and walk with you through thick and thin, now and always.”
7. What should I say on Promise Day?
Ans:- I will never let you go
. Happy Promise Day! I promise that I never leave you, always be with you and make your life beautiful. I promise that you will be my only face and soul, you will be my heart without whom I could not live.
8. How do you say happy Promise Day?
Ans:- Take home the crown of the best boyfriend ever with these Happy Promise Day quotes.
(1). I promise to love you till eternity.
(2). Promise me that you will never leave me alone.
(3). I promise to never leave you at any point of time in my life. Happy Promise Day.
(4). Together, we make a beautiful life. Happy Promise Day Baby.
9. What is Promise Day short note?
Ans:- On Promise Day, celebrated on February 11, couples make promises to selflessly love each other for the rest of their lives. Such emotional promises and dedication to each other helps strengthen the relationship.
10. What is the real meaning of promise?
Ans:- A declaration that one will do or refrain from doing something specified
. : a legally binding declaration that gives the person to whom it is made a right to expect or to claim the performance or forbearance of a specified act. : reason to expect something.
11. What is the importance of promise?
Ans:- Keeping a promise lays the foundation for trust and respect
. When our behavior is consistent, it allows others to build faith in us. Nurturing this behavior in children early on begins a pattern that leads to reliability and personal integrity.
12. How many types of promises are there?
Ans:- The Bible records two kinds of promises from the Lord—unconditional and conditional
.
13. What are the types of promise in contract?
Ans:- We have also discussed the various types of reciprocal promises (mutual and independent, conditional and concurrent
). We have also talked about the various rules that need to be followed with regards to reciprocal promises which are Sections 51-58 of the Indian Contract Act, 1872.
14. What are the three states of promise?
Ans:- A Promise is in one of these states:-
* pending: initial state, neither fulfilled nor rejected.
* fulfilled: meaning that the operation was completed successfully.
* rejected: meaning that the operation failed.
15. What are the different states of promises?
Ans:- A promise has three states:-
* pending: the promise is still in the works.
* fulfilled: the promise resolves successfully and returns a value.
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